Sometimes we make the Christian life so much more complicated than it should be. In particular, I have in mind the idea of discerning God's will for our lives. So often we worry and fear that we might miss God's will and we make discerning it something so vague and nebulous that we really have no idea if we are figuring it out or if we are simply experiencing indigestion. I say this merely to introduce one short quote from my former pastor Jim Campbell, who is now a missionary in the Pacific Rim. Shelly and I have been praying about our life and ministry direction and in the midst of an opportunity Shelly wrote Jim's wife about our situation. Here's what she wrote back...
Jim says don't be paralyzed by the concept of seeking the will of God. We have His will. If we are living in obedience and its something you want to do and it fulfills your gifts and you've been praying about it for a year and the door opens and you like what you see then walk through it. The Lord will provide all you need to be equipped with.
Honestly, that is just perfect advice for biblically discerning God's will for our lives. The only one thing I would add would be that of seeking out godly counselors. In our case we have had many, many praying for us including my fellow church elders. We have a great and gracious Heavenly Father.